Let's Talk About SLex....

I begged Alicia for a sexy meme....and she came through! So here are my answers. (And by the way - did you hear? You are ALL tagged.)

1. Let's get it out of the way first. Are you a virgin in SL? [If you are, move to question 3.]

Nope. Not even close. I am still wearing white to my wedding though. :-P

2. How long did it take you before you hopped on a poseball with someone? And I don't mean dance balls.

As soon as I had a good skin and hair. I had no idea what else you were supposed to do in SL.

3. Do you own any talking genitalia, such as from Xcite?

Yes. I own a vagina, clitoris and a pair of lovely pierced nipples. The nipples are nice - not too big and very quiet - I sometimes still use them. But the rest of the Xcite! stuff? They were obviously built by someone who had never seen girl parts in real life. They are gathering dust in my inventory. I should add that they were purchased for me by a steady boyfriend.

4. Guys: Do you edit your "package" to be bigger?
Ladies: Do you think size REALLY matters??

In SL and RL, size only matters at the extremes. Anywhere in the middle of the bell curve and technique, enthusiasm, creativity and patience matter infinitely more.

5. Do you rely on your talking body parts during your encounters?

Nope. OMG - if you can't think of something sexier to say on your own then you are in trouble.

6. Forget the booty, let's talk romance. Where's a romantic place in SL to take someone to?

Stargazer is a nice place. Some of the Rezzable sims can be quite arousing. But my favorite place to take my love is the tent in our yard or on the couple's hammock on our beach.

7. When you go shopping for clothes, do you deliberately buy things that you think your gf/bf/partner/flavor of the week would like to see you in?

Jerremy likes the color blue - so that is always in the back of my mind when I buy things - especially lingerie. I really do think of him when I buy clothes. I kind of know what he likes to see me in and I try to please him. Luckily, his taste is not far from what I like as well. Men are very visual so I think this is important to wear things that are visually pleasing. This does not mean slut wear! It means interesting patterns & colors or styles of clothing that are flattering to your particular figure. It means not wearing the same thing all the time and taking time to wear something special for going out. Maybe even changing your hair style for an evening. I have fun putting on clothes/hair I think he would find attractive.

8. Let's move to commitment: Do you think people get partnered too quickly in SL?

Sometimes. But I think if you meet the right person and have solid interactions (meaning not just sex but exploring and building and other activities) it does not matter how quickly or slowly you move. The key thing is to try to get to know a person on many levels. Don't think with your Xcite! parts. But partnering means so many things to people - to some it is dating, to some it is being engaged, to others it means marriage.

9. Big wedding, small wedding, or no wedding at all? And do you get partnered BEFORE the wedding or afterwards?

In RL, I would prefer something simple and small - maybe even eloping. But in SL, I get to play and fantasize a quite a bit. My wedding to Jerremy is turning out to be a bit bigger than I expected and I am having a blast with it all. OMG you should see the wedding location Jerremy is building - it is going to be quite amazing. We will get partnered after we are married - or as close to the wedding as possible.

10. Last question, and it's of course back to the booty. ;) Be honest, how many sex items [furniture and poseballs] do you have around your place?

OMG. The only piece of furniture that is not sex furniture in our home is our coffee table. And we will probably find a way to add some naughty pose balls to that, too. It is a darn good thing that Jerremy and I have so many other interests and activities in common or you would think we are sex fiends.