I relogged but it was still gone. After I tried TPing around and even having LL re-start the sim, our stove and sink were still nowhere to be seen. I realized that the parts were copy, so I dug into my inventory to look for one. But for some odd reason, the part I had was the white version not the black one. I really don't remember buying a white one.
I composed myself and TPd to Del Sol to buy a replacement. But, the "Build It" kitchen components have been updated and no longer match the rest of our kitchen. Luckily, Xandi Mars, Del Sol owner, said she would sell me an old copy of the sink/stove. YAY! Happy ending.
Sort of. I want to be mad at the asset server. I want to talk bad about it and stop sending it Christmas cards ...but I am afraid that it will take revenge on me and do something much, much worse. After all, I have been relatively lucky with asset server issues compared to some of my friends. *knocks on wood until my knuckles bleed*